A collection of insights, tools and mindsets for your successful marriage. Culled from the daily JOT (Just One Thing) tips shared by Adai Ad.

The book is $10.00 (does not include shipping & processing).

Check out some of the tips
Tell your spouse something you learned from them.

Have a good time together – even when you are not together.

Look for ways to say yes, even when you are thinking ‘no’.

Privacy and a ‘we’ mentality: there ought to be both.
You’ve said it a thousand times? Try something new.
Know the signs of a possible
what our readers say

I’ve been enjoying the daily tips via Whatsapp for years. I love that it is just one point everyday so I can really try to actually do the new idea. So glad it’s now in a book – all in one place.

Sara D
Devorah’s tips for marriage are great! They are always on the ball, full of wisdom and insights, and very helpful! In just a few sentences the all-so-common scenarios she presents are seen in a whole new light, and remedies offered to painful situations are easy to follow and target the problem at its core! Kol Hakavod and Hatzlacha Raba!
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This book covers so many important insights about how to really ‘be’ in the marriage.  I love that there are examples and wording to use so I can quickly implement without much deep thinking.

Chaim P
I just wanted to tell you that I really enjoy these. The amount of self help stuff out there is overwhelming and while I partake I find these little “pep talks” and pointers really quick and easy. Thanks for always sharing.

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About the book

Who is Adai Ad? Adai Ad was founded by Devora Krasnianski to provide the necessary tools and insights for a strong and  successful marriage  – starting with pre-shiduchim, continuing through the shiduch process and into the marriage itself. To accomplish this goal, Adai Ad addresses a myriad of topics through webinars, conference calls, articles, courses – all can be found on our website www.adaiad.org


About the JOT daily message: Through the years, many clients and students have reached out for guidance and support. They came seeking encouragement and assistance with relationship challenges. They asked tough questions. They explored their role in the relationship. They enhanced their communication and conflict resolution skills.  They adopted productive mindsets that helped them enrich their marriage, family life and so many other aspects of their lives.

Adai Ad’s (JOT) Just One Thing series was developed to share short and practical relationship insights, tools and mindsets every morning (via whatsapp and social media). These are widely received all over the world.


About this book: After many requests, about 100 tips were compiled into this book. In this book, we cover many topics including communication, a ‘we’ mentality,  personal growth, working conflict, enhancing each other’s day… and many other topics important to successful marriage.


This project has been funded by a grant from Council Members Mathieu Eugene and Chaim Deutsch through New York City Council’s Domestic Violence Empowerment Initiative to Crown Heights Jewish Community Council.

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Adai Ad: Empowering couples. Enriching relationships.

Adai Ad means ‘successfully lasting’ in Hebrew; thus, an Adai Ad relationship is one that is successfully lasting.

Adai Ad’s vision is that every couple relationship is a successful one where all in the family thrive. The Adai Ad Institute’s programs offers the tools and mindsets to make one’s relationships the most enriching and empowering force of their life.

Adai Ad’s mission is to provide awareness, education and guidance for all aspects related to enriching and empowering the couple relationship, in these 4 areas:

  • Dating for an Adai Ad relationship
  • Setting up an Adai Ad relationship
  • Invigorating an Adai Ad relationship
  • Resetting for an Adai Ad relationship
To this end, Adai Ad sponsors, hosts and/or participates in events and activities that promote strong and healthy relationships, such as webinars/ conference calls, social media, the website, courses (online and in person), and individual coaching.
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